Being
confused in a relationship is considered as ill relationship. Sometimes we
feel do feel like our lover is no more
who they use to be, they have changed totally from who they use to be to a new
being. Sometimes it could be caused by jealousy, completion, fear, being too
good and expecting it to be reciprocated while you get perhaps quarter of what
you have giving. Now I would tell you how to know if your lover is really is
still your lover, when you are confused, when you are afraid,
when you
shouldn’t display everything your heart feels.
STILL YOUR LOVER OR NOT: it gets to a stage in a relationship
especially after two good weeks of having a wonderful time with your lover.
They already see all you are made of, how weak you are, your thumb screw, how romantic
you can be or how boring you can be. After those few days they have tested all
of you or rather what they think it’s all of you, it would determine if you are
really qualified to be the major share holder of their life. After those
wonderful days has come and gone, try to find out how busy her schedule is, how
much of a pretender they could be what they are really like. Then that could be
your only solution to knowing how much they love and owe you. If they hardly
pick your calls but always would call you back later, they still love you but
check their schedule and check how much you try to occupy their time them adapt
and everything would be fine, but if they don’t call back after so many missed
calls, its rather they are testing you or have had enough of you. Try to adapt
and see what they would be like after one month. Never show them you are
hurting by complaining to them don’t be the nagging partner in the
relationship. The more you complain the more they are occupied by the spirit of
hatred towards you if they don’t love you. Complaining hardly gets any where
it’s more of 80/20.
NOT EVER CALLING: if your lover never calls you,
check their financial ability and determine if they are still your lover or
not. Mostly in a relationship when you are not communicated by your lover it
it’s quite heart breaking for non workers, it might be that they do not have
time on their cell to communicate you. There is about 90% possibility of that.
But if they are well financed or perhaps they have at least enough money to buy
time and they never call even after a long time. It might be either that you
showed of your money too much or you are not the major share holder of their
life worse they need you to quit them. It’s left for you to find out which
these is the reason of neither not calling nor even flashing. Some might be too
used to their spouse calling them but that means you do not have a greater part
of their life try to change them.
RESPONSE
ALWAYS NEGATIVE WHEN ASKED FOR A DATE:
if they are your boyfriend/girlfriend then it might be that she can’t
come to the public with you because of her background or she is doesn’t feel
too good with hanging out with you. Afraid or ashamed, it’s left for you to
find out if she thinks you are not worth it or she is afraid of her guidance
back at home. But if they can’t hang out with you because they think you are
not worth it, there might still be a solution. Just try and make them admire
you if you can’t just let go and get more smart for the next lover. But Am
NEVER encouraging divorce, you should know your lover’s capability and
temperament before you ask that question of “will you marry me” or answer that
question saying “oh my gosh, yes I will”.
Be careful be smart don’t die of low
self esteem or kill yourself over a lover. Be strong and think less.
