HOW TO KNOW IF YOU STILL BELONG TO YOUR SPOUSE/LOVER

Being confused in a relationship is considered as ill relationship. Sometimes we feel  do feel like our lover is no more who they use to be, they have changed totally from who they use to be to a new being. Sometimes it could be caused by jealousy, completion, fear, being too good and expecting it to be reciprocated while you get perhaps quarter of what you have giving. Now I would tell you how to know if your lover is really is still your lover, when you are confused, when you are afraid,

when you shouldn’t display everything your heart feels.

STILL YOUR LOVER OR NOT: it gets to a stage in a relationship especially after two good weeks of having a wonderful time with your lover. They already see all you are made of, how weak you are, your thumb screw, how romantic you can be or how boring you can be. After those few days they have tested all of you or rather what they think it’s all of you, it would determine if you are really qualified to be the major share holder of their life. After those wonderful days has come and gone, try to find out how busy her schedule is, how much of a pretender they could be what they are really like. Then that could be your only solution to knowing how much they love and owe you. If they hardly pick your calls but always would call you back later, they still love you but check their schedule and check how much you try to occupy their time them adapt and everything would be fine, but if they don’t call back after so many missed calls, its rather they are testing you or have had enough of you. Try to adapt and see what they would be like after one month. Never show them you are hurting by complaining to them don’t be the nagging partner in the relationship. The more you complain the more they are occupied by the spirit of hatred towards you if they don’t love you. Complaining hardly gets any where it’s more of 80/20.

NOT EVER CALLING: if your lover never calls you, check their financial ability and determine if they are still your lover or not. Mostly in a relationship when you are not communicated by your lover it it’s quite heart breaking for non workers, it might be that they do not have time on their cell to communicate you. There is about 90% possibility of that. But if they are well financed or perhaps they have at least enough money to buy time and they never call even after a long time. It might be either that you showed of your money too much or you are not the major share holder of their life worse they need you to quit them. It’s left for you to find out which these is the reason of neither not calling nor even flashing. Some might be too used to their spouse calling them but that means you do not have a greater part of their life try to change them.

 RESPONSE ALWAYS NEGATIVE WHEN ASKED FOR A DATE:  if they are your boyfriend/girlfriend then it might be that she can’t come to the public with you because of her background or she is doesn’t feel too good with hanging out with you. Afraid or ashamed, it’s left for you to find out if she thinks you are not worth it or she is afraid of her guidance back at home. But if they can’t hang out with you because they think you are not worth it, there might still be a solution. Just try and make them admire you if you can’t just let go and get more smart for the next lover. But Am NEVER encouraging divorce, you should know your lover’s capability and temperament before you ask that question of “will you marry me” or answer that question saying “oh my gosh, yes I will”.

Be careful be smart don’t die of low self esteem or kill yourself over a lover. Be strong and think less.

HOW TO BE A BETTER ACTOR/ACTRESS

Acting can be defined as the art or occupation of performing fictional roles in plays, films, or television. It can also be said to be
temporarily doing the duties of another person.I define acting as faking an identity and feeling real with it. Acting is one of the hardest and coolest things in life, if you don’t know how to act and you are learning but it seems impossible you feel bad and think it’s really hard but if you do know how to act you feel it’s really good to be acting. The most common obstacle that comes to an actor/actress in feeling uncomfortable with the role they are cast to play. What makes a good actor is being able to overcome shame and acting every role. Majid Michael, a great and admirable actor can be given as a good example of an all round actor. If you have watched his movies, you would see he doesn’t always act one role. He acts romance, love, priest, villain and so many other recognized roles. I was surprised to see a man who is know is a god when it comes to romance act and being cast as Christ. There are some certain and really important thing I would talk about here that would give you good ideas on how to act better.

Being real by feeling real: To look real in a movie, you have to leave your real life and be whom you are asked to be. That includes letting go of shame, if you are asked to be a fool call yourself a fool and behave like one. In one of the interviews of Majid I read, he made a comment saying “if am at home in a movie I feel at home, believe it’s my home, and act like it’s really my home. If am married I accept am married to that to the actress believe that am married to he and treat her like I’d treat my wife” wow, I was really touched by those few words he said. So be whomever you are asked to be and believe you are really that personality.

Practice makes perfect:  To feel real in a play, you can’t just wake up and start feeling real when you are asked to act. To know how to feel real you have to learn how to feel real. Go to whomever you are really comfortable with, talk to the person and ask him to do you a favor by acting with you. Just feel free act with them don’t force yourself to fit in while acting it would lead to over acting. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes, make the mistakes and take corrections. To see what your acting life looks like, do well to cover the play with a video coverage. Show you are embraced when you fail a role, don’t feel bad it would change your ability to fit in with what you want to do. Be careful with the kind of energy that flows into you. Don’t let yourself feel bad when your role requires you to feel good. I’d advise you to also act alone, do crazy things, dance and feel good that helps to elevate the energy that helps in avoiding feeling shy while acting.

Learn how to show feelings: Get a mirror and assume a duty, like you are crying, sad, weak, angry, happy, proud, blushing and confused. See how your face really looks and see how real and perfect you look. Learn how to control the energy that flows in and be careful of the kind of energy that flows in you. The energy of anger differs from that of sadness, happiness and other kind of feelings.

Speech and voice loudness: One of the most important things is to know how to use your diction. Choice of diction matters a lot and how bold and clear your voice sounds also matters a lot too. You can be disqualified because you do not know how to speak, even when you know what to speak. So do well to give your time in observing how your diction sounds while talking to your friends and how your diction sounds while acting try to make them both sound alike. Do not act to please the director rather relax to act and focus on your role. Did you know that, observing your audience while acting obstruct the perfect energy that should flow through you to give a perfect play?

Learn how to be emotional and really fake a good real tears: Some people have the ability to show they are sad while crying in a role, they can actually be nicknamed “town criers” *winks* while some can’t show real emotion of crying while crying in a play. If you can’t show the emotion perfectly no matter how hard you try to make if show, you can still cry and look real even if it’s not in you to show perfect sadness. Practice really well on how to feel sad, relax your nerves while crying also do well to forget about your environment and focus more on the reason why you are crying. Believe it really happened to you.

                How you can fake tears. All you have to do is open your eyes and hold it steady, close your palm and hold it really tight, avoid the sight of anything just look at nothing, look into the air it’s more like looking at nothing and focusing on the fact that you are sad.  Within a few seconds you would see tears rolling down your chin.

                I HOPE THIS TIPS WOULD REALLY HELP YOU IN DEVELOPING YOUR ACTING ABILITIES. GOOD LUCK WITH DEVELOPING YOUR SKILL, DO NOT WAIT FOR A STAGE BEFORE YOU LEARN/ACT. WHERE YOU ARE NOW IS A GREAT STAGE.

SIMPLE QUICK WAYS TO AVOID INGROWN HAIRS POULARLY KNOWN AS BUMPS

Ingrown hair is one of the most annoying skin infections. This is mostly seen on black skin. It really looks disgusting and painful when it shows up. Having bears is really fun when it is neat, people will admire it and wish to be like you, but no one would admire bears with ingrown hairs that really look irritating and unhealthy. People keep asking question and thinking that avoiding ingrown hairs are just for the rich and costs lots of money. But your days of worries about ingrown hairs are over.

Treat your bears and look cool.

First:      Discover if your skin accepts blade clipper or shaving stick. If your skin doesn’t accept shaving stick, then you know that avoiding ingrown hairs is just close to impossible.

Tips

These are the five simple and less expensive ways of avoiding ingrown hairs.

Avoid scratching your bears

Wash your bears regularly

Use of a good anti bacterial soap

Use of a good less oily cream

Avoid people touching your bears

i.                     Avoid scratching your bears. When you scratch your bears because it scratches you, you are simply inserting dirt in your pores. The dirt in your pores now blocks your sweat from flowing out of your skin, it then causes ingrown hairs.

ii.                  Wash your bears regularly. While bathing pay serious attention to washing your bears, do not just scrub gently, it’s painful at first but in due time you would get use to it. Each time you are opportune to wash your face, always pay serious attention to your bears. Wash your bears at least three times daily with soap and sponge.

iii.                Use of a good anti bacterial soap. That helps to disinfect your pores while you wash it. A good anti bacterial soap really goes a long way to give a long lasting fresh bears for at least 12hours, depending on your environment. Its often painful when you use the soap on broken skin especially after shaving, all you have to do is endure.

iv.                 Use of a good less oily cream. Avoid using cream with much oil. Oil sticks dirt to the skin and causes much sweat to the skin. Cream with less oil and good vitamins helps keeps your hair look healthy and cool.

v.                   Avoid people touching your bears. Always try to stop people from touching your bears, because it infects your bears with more dirt. That increases the dirt on your skin and it eventually causes you to scratch the more.

THAT'S MINE NO INGROWN HAIRS

SEDUCING YOU GIRLFRIEND

 
Do you think it’s literally possibly to seduce your girlfriend? Well stop thinking and just do it bro!

Most times you can’t just keep up the blazing passion of romance in a relationship, though you still love and want this relationship to continue but she already feels that you suck. That’s one of the worst experiences to have in a relationship. Perhaps to some reading this, you haven’t gotten to this stage in your relationship yet. Just in case you do or have a friend that does you can help yourself and also a help them out with these few wonderful tips. Spice up your sexual relationship by seducing you girlfriend.

I.                   Admiration and attraction:

Get you your girlfriend to admire and feel attracted to you, dress cool and smell good. Never allow your scent to make her uncomfortable, but always make use of a good body spray with mild scent. Always relax your nerves to feel your actions towards her, letting the feelings flow out of you just to feel sexy and have a romantic moment with her always. Be friend with her friends, make sure they really like you and always refer to her as your woman. Close your eyes and imagine how you would possibly feel if your girlfriend is always laughing and chatting with your male friends. Well I think you would feel jealous and like her more unknowingly right? So make her feel so too.

II.                 Take the lead and man up.

Do things unlike you often do, change your pattern of interaction. If you are the type of person that always waits for your girlfriend to chat you up or you always lack words to say. Get loose of your tongue and ask her questions about sex in a romantic way. Here are some examples of what you can ask her, “Darling, why do women like men who do things in a rough/embracing manner?” that would certainly stair up a very good conversation that would give you few tips on how to handle her from her replies. Bear in mind that questions like “have you eaten? What did you eat? What will you eat at night?” really sucks” You can still comment and ask questions on sexy tricky thing you can discuss with your girlfriend.

III.              USE OF FINGER WORKS TO CARESS HER.

Always use your finger on her, touch her hair and appreciate it especially in the public. Touch her ears in a gentle way and often kiss her fore head, they appreciate it a lot. Often grab her head, give her a peck before you bid her good bye with a smirk. That would certainly keep her sleeping smiling.

IV.              TEASE HER BE NAUGHTY AND MAKE SURE SHE IS REALLY TENSED UP WITH YOUR ACTIONS.

While walking on the road often press her ass, even if she tries to stop you give her a smirk and do it again. But just in case she tries to show she is pissed stop. Discuss it with her later when she is a good mood.

Just in case you don’t know how to start the discussion. I can help you with one. You can give her a smirk and say “babe I like how your ass feels on my palm when I touch it” she gives you a response perhaps a negative one if she is new or rather pretending but don’t give up keep acting naughty even if she doesn’t say she like it for a while just bear in mind that every girl likes her ass touched. Sometimes push her to the wall, press yourself on her then look into her eyes for a while, kiss the side of her lips and tell her sweet words. “You are really sweet” that can do. Starve her of real kiss most times and make sure you know how to kiss. Don’t salivate in her mouth while kissing her. It really makes her feel “kissing sucks”. Be smart don’t show her all of you, but most of all be real and romantic.

I believe this few tips can help you out, you can ask questions below the comment box and click the like button if this really helped you out.